“Rip Van Winkle”<\/a> about a man who gets lost in the woods.\u00a0 Before getting into the story I need to take a sentence to appreciate the fact that the fictitious author mentioned is named Deidrick Knickerbocker, and that is just wonderful.\u00a0 In the story Rip Van Winkle does not just get lost in the woods, he is escaping his wife and goes off to get out of the house.\u00a0 See, he is this well-loved pillar of the community, but his own wife and kids cannot stand him.\u00a0 He will do anything for anybody, but he has a list of reasons for why he is lazy at home and will not do anything for his own family.\u00a0 His wife is described as always yelling at him (and \u201chenpecking\u201d him), and one day he just goes off into the woods with his beloved companion Wolf the dog and his rifle.\u00a0 While in a rarely visited part of the woods, he sees a stranger struggling to carry a \u201cstout keg\u201d, and Rip offers to help.\u00a0 They get to the destination and there are a bunch of odd people bowling.\u00a0 Rip decides to drink some of what he was just carrying, and then he wakes up next to a rusted gun and Wolf is missing.\u00a0 After a slow process of figuring out what actually happened, Rip learns that he had been asleep for twenty years.\u00a0 He has a long beard, a dilapidated house, grandkids, and no wife because she has died.\u00a0 There is no sympathy for the wife he lost or the war he did not have to be a part of.\u00a0 He soon discovers his daughter will basically take care of him, he has no farm he has to tend to, and he can sit around at the inn he used to frequent and tell stories to anyone who will listen.<\/p>\nI retell that tale maybe a little biasedly so you may want to read it for yourself, but I want to talk about the message this story sends.\u00a0 Now I may be reading into this too much, but was Rip rewarded (not having to work or put up with his wife anymore) for suffering the tyranny of his wife?\u00a0 How is that a fair picture?\u00a0 Why is there nothing in the story that actually develops the wife\u2019s character?\u00a0 What if there were legitimate reasons for her reactions?\u00a0 Yelling at her husband was probably not the best idea, but Rip did not do anything around the house, helped everyone else in the village, was not a great father, and left her to keep the house neat which we are told she did.\u00a0 Then, Rip just walks away from them all and abandons them (admittedly that was not really his fault because no one can really prepare for alcohol that will knock you out for twenty years).\u00a0 Still, he has no sympathy for her spending all those years he was asleep alone, and raising their kids alone, or the fact that the person he shared a vow with is dead.<\/p>\n
You could retort that he was not rewarded for walking away from home that day, but for helping out a stranger.\u00a0 You could say that he was a great guy because of how he not only put up with his wife, but how he served the entire village.\u00a0 That is fair, but why does he have such a happy ending for someone who could not have cared less that his own wife was dead?\u00a0 Not that I want him to suffer, but where is the justice in her having to survive on her own, and him getting to now sit around and tell stories?\u00a0 No matter how she treated him, marriage should be honored, and cherished.\u00a0 My problem with this story is really just that it gives the impression if you do not like your marriage or spouse, you should just hope to run into a stranger in the woods with really strong alcohol so you can just fast forward your life and not have to deal with him or her.\u00a0 Admittedly, there are probably seasons that we would all like to just sleep through and not have to actually experience in our lives, but marriage should not be one of the things we want to escape.\u00a0 Whatever their issues were, I wish the story had shown a desire to actually work through them instead of a sense of relief at having found he escaped them once and for all.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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